There are endless jokes about how women never know what they want, we are too complex for men's liking, blah blah blah.
I am going to let you in on a little secret.....
WE'RE NOT THAT COMPLICATED!
Ok, maybe some ladies don't know what they want. But I can tell you now that most of us do.
Guys in a relationship often don't seem to know why their girlfriends are moaning about not feeling "special" enough or whatever the case. I can never understand why males think we're so hard to understand - we only drop hints every chance we get at what we want!
My little secret is this - you want to know what women want? We want to feel special. We're not your buddy that you can greet with a slap on the back and a "howzit". We don't want to be idolised or showered with expensive gifts day after day (although it never hurts!).
It's little things...a lot of guys never seem to realise that little things count for a LOT. Things like...sending an SMS saying good morning, giving them one little flower that you picked (no it doesn't have to be a whole bunch!).
There are so many things that guys could do that are so EASY (and cheap) to get girls to fall at their feet, but do they?
No, it seems most guys just don't think of it!
What a shame. It's just like shooting yourself in the foot, really.
So, you could carry on thinking that us girls are complicated....or, you can take a hint, do something SMALL that's nice for your girl, and watch the magic happen.
No comments:
Post a Comment